Even in the midst of tragedy there is always the possibility for laughter. -Del Close, the godfather of Chicago improv
In five years' time, I moved in with my boyfriend, quit several jobs, directed four plays, got fired for the first time, lost and gained friends and family, decided my dream job wasn't, and got engaged. Through all of those changes, I got more and more flexible. I accepted Life's challenged and changes with less and less resistance as the years went on. I became a more intuitive actor, a more fearless performer. I trusted my instincts a little more with each passing year, took more chances, and redefined my comfort zone on and off stage.
I've been doing improvisational comedy for five years. Even though the performances are made up, there are rules. They are universal and wise. I use them constantly. The connections to everyday living are pretty obvious, I think, but maybe that's because I've been incorporating them for so long. However, like any guidelines to sincere Truth on stage (or mental health), it's easy to get complacent and forget them. A review is in order from time to time.
1. Say, "Yes." Say, "Yes, and..."
Accept what is presented to you and add to it.2. Listen.
Your scene partner is telling you everything you need to know. Pay attention.3. There are no mistakes.
If something doesn't make sense, work with it until it does.4. Use the path of least resistance.
Don't complicate things. Be creative, but simple and direct.5. Create an environment.
Know where you are and why. Form the space and it will guide your next move.6. Create a strong character.
Who/what are you? What's important to you and why?7. Don't try to be funny. Be real.
Good humor is hiding in plain sight. Just be real and the funny will show itself.If you can't remember all of this, just remember to say, "Yes, and..." Keep saying "Yes!" to Life and contribute to it. Accept what is happening, use it, and add to it. There is no good or bad in usefulness, only build.
Take a page from Uncle Del's handbook. When times are unbearable, remember there is laughter to be found. Humor is there, even if you're not in the mood to laugh. Notice where the laugh would occur, tuck the moment away, and bring it out later. When you do feel better (and you will), take that laugh for a stroll.
